Am i the one that ruins everything?

Well to 2day my mom again was sayinq to go together as fam. Some where n she let go about my dad yes. So we were all gettinq ready n Thn THT my mom says that why is my hair messed up n i tld her i just woke up n she sed comb it n i tld her ok and Thn i was combing it and she sed is that what u call comb cuz i left my hair down and she dont lyk it lyk tht so she told me put it up n i didnt wnt to so thn she got mad at me n we were screaminq at each other and she sed thats it we r not goin no where now go and clean ur room gosh i did it again was it my fault that we didnt hav a fam. Time together? I know its not my mom she is just trying to help so we can have time together but is it me?.