What is more important, finding your soulmate, or finding someone compatible?

its my personal belief that everyone is different and you should do what makes you happy. if the woman you met ten years ago was really your soulmate, you wouldn't feel that staying with her was settling. i feel that in the end, you'll realize the person you're great friends and happy with and can be passionate with may turn out to be your soulmate after all. and if you believe that person is out there and keep your head high, they'll come around. you can love more than one person...